Ask anyways
In a conversation someone once said to me, Anyone can have anything they want if they are willing to ask 1000 people. Very often this conversation would come to my mind. Asking is important. We all ask for things every day. By asking or requesting or even in the slightest conversation. ‘Can you pass the stapler please.’ So its really not that complicated. ‘Sometimes we have to ask’ I was even reminded the other day, so why not ask. Especially if we don’t know the answer.
In your wildest dreams, what is the one thing you desire more than anything else? If already had or accomplished this then you wouldn’t have to be asking anymore. The thing is most people do not know what they really want anyways. Very often it is easier for someone to help someone else with their dream than it is with the person desiring it. So why not ask, right? Go ahead and ask anyways.
I have ask several times and actually been embarrassed that I even did ask. ‘Wow, that was stupid I said to myself. I don’t even know why I asked.’
But then it gets easier as you keep asking. Do you sound needy? absolutely not. It is perfectly human to ask. Think about the advertising. Especially the big advertisers. They are asking for your money every day to buy their goods or services. And they ask several several times a day.
So what do you want anyways? Have you asked yourself lately?
When you ask if you don’t get a reply or someone blows you off even though they could have said yes and helped you, its usually because they are so wrapped up in their life, with the drama that is going on that they just don’t hear you. So why don’t we all ask each other. Ask and ask and ask some more. Communicate more with each other. If you can’t help the other person with their request then offer some advice as to how they might achieve their request. If you did that, then you would be helping them. If you keep on asking people about what you are desiring to have, be or do sooner or later someone is going to say…’Well lets see how we could figure that out for you, have you got a few minutes, ill grab my paper and pen.’ Wouldn’t that blow your mind. The fact of the matter is, it happens everyday. People have major breakthroughs, with their thoughts and ideas. They think, ‘oh I should take to Betty, I know i havent seen her in a long time but maybe she can help me with my answer’. If you keep asking in your mind ‘how can I accomplish this?’ then sooner or later answers present themselves. Circumstances happen, events take place, people show up in your life, new conversations. Five minutes ago it was never a prediction you could of made. It just happened. So keep asking.
Once you start thought keep going. When you ask, it changes you brain chemistry with what is possible. When you finally come up with a solution it changes your brain chemistry about what is possible. It gives you a clearer vision of the future. It tells you that yes, its possible and its your turn. All the lights are green and this is happening. It gets you even more excited about the future. How exciting is that?
So what is important to you at this time in your life? What has got you turned on and fired up? What is one of the most important things that you keep thinking of and maybe haven’t asked yet on how you could obtain it.
What about your own thinking and asking yourself. Have you taken the time to just sit and ponder and reflect as you ask yourself, ‘How can I….?’
Many times too when you look back and reflect on life and times when you were trying to solve something, you realize that you eventually did solve it.
What about this, have you ever been thinking about someone you knew and all of a sudden they show up back in your life. They all you and you say ‘hey, I was just thinking of you’. That is the power of your mind working for you. Thats why its important to ask. For anything! One conversation can change the trajectory of your whole life. In an instant.
So going back to the thinking and reflecting we were talking about. If you take a few minutes every day. It could be 5 or 10 minutes. It could be 20 or 60 plus minutes. Think about with feeling in your mind how fantastic it would feel just to have your goal. Make lists of different things you would like. Feeling is the key here. The more you ask in your mind with detail and feeling, the easier for your goal to move closer too you. You’ve got to
F-e-e-e-e-e-l. Feel your goal inside you. Feel it existing in your own mind and in your heart. That is how you ask your internal soul. Again and again.
Sometimes instantaneously, things will materialize for you. Other times, it will show up partially. Small things will happen to confirm your goal and you are on the right track.
I will give you an example ( use phone at seminar)
Going back to basics like we were talking about at the beginning, even if you start with conversations daily with like minded and open minded people. You could start by asking them how their life is going and what do they wish for or what is it that they are working towards. Then somewhere in the conversation, if they haven’t already asked you, say hey do you mind if I tell you what I am working towards? That opens it all up and if they have time to listen you paint your picture to them of what you wish for.
Instead of taking this as another read, really think about what you just read here. Come back to it, or just make a note in your calendar or your day planner to make some time just for you. Just to really think about your future. Even if is just one thing you want to create in your life. Maybe its that dream vacation you have been thinking about pick a destination of where you want to go and maybe pick up your favorite travel book. If it is that job promotion, make a list of what your ultimate promotion would look like and actions you need to take. Take time for you and your loved ones. You’ll be glad you did.
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