Why it's a good time to chuck it!

Its very unusual when sometimes the universe takes a shot at us and gives us a suttle reminder that we really should rid of things that we no longer require in our life or no longer associate with the current group of people we are around.

           Better yet, if we don't comply, life then has a real hard core way of reminding us. It's called, 'shit happens. In a big way that is. If you don't remind yourself, then it reminds you. Sometimes it could be a few little hints along the way. Just to say hey check this out. Then maybe a few more little hints. Then if you don't act....Bam! some big huge and dramatic incident happens. Maybe its a death of someone close to you. A loss of a great job. Maybe its a personal challenge one of your friends is having and you really feel for them. It is just something usually that stops you in your tracks, so you can take another look at what is really going on in your life and what is important to you.

           So we make an adjustment. If our current major goal is important enough for you then you take this incident that happened in your life, you deal with it, and continue on with your major goal. You don't allow yourself to become distracted. You are conscious and aware of what is around you but thats it. You stay focused. Really when you think about it there are only 2 states that we operate in. We are either focused or we are distracted. You cannot be both at once. The same as Angry and Enthusiastic. You cannot be in both states at the same time. Especially, when you are focused on your goal. You do not accept any distractions.

           The more focused you become the less some other areas of your life matter. Not because you are ignorant, its just that when you own that goal and you have a picture everyday in your mind of what it looks like, you start to make changes in your life in other areas because some of those things you realize are energy suckers. Not all of them of course, however because you are focused, a lot of activities do get put aside in the quest for reaching your goal.

            That is why being grateful is one of the most amazing states we can be in as much of the time possible. When you are grateful for everything around you it brings into play so many great emotions. It really makes us feel life. Feel the rich conversations we are having everyday. Feel the energy of the people around us. Feel the great thoughts that we are having and then almost exponentially we feel for all the great things around us. I mean what else is there right? That is what life is about. Experiencing life at its fullest, being joyous, fun and rewarding. Doing the things that count. It's amazing how confident you can feel when you are working on the things that really count.

           Sadly most people do not even give there own thoughts the time of day. They are unconsciously unaware. You know what though? At any given time you can re-set the clock and start over. Just say,okay thats it. I am having a new start. I am going back to my natural self where life was such a joy and I had a lot of friends. And you just start right there.

 You can start some new activities. Even go back to some of those things that used to bring you joy. Start to feel life around you once again. Make some time for yourself. Even an hour a day where you can think about some ideas or things that would be fun to do. Places you still havent gone to or would still like to go. People you would like to meet. Clubs or groups you would like to join. Specific conversations you would like to have with someone that you have being playing in your head over and over. Or maybe you just want to sit in your space for an hour and watch the morning or evening sunset while you drink your coffee. Read that book you have been putting off, even better yet, that list of books on Amazon you have been carrying around forever. I just saw a quote the other day and laughed 'Sometimes, you just have to take some time and lay on the couch and read books for 2 years.' I wonder if anyone has ever done that.

 Or just sit there and wonder. Its the time you can take by yourself to just be. Be grateful for how your life has turned out. Be grateful for everything around you. Be grateful that you have taken the time with yourself in the quiet zone. 

  It can feel strange at first, but if you take the time to slow things down and just listen to yourself I know you would be amazed. The more time you spend with yourself the better you feel because you start remember how fun your life has been. Also, if you really don't think it has been fun, you can now start to make it fun. Besides, the past is over. Its behind us now.

  When stuff happens in our life that we really arent to excited about, its easy to look over our shouder and behind us. It's also important to not always be looking over your shoulder unless thats the direction you want to go. We need to be present in our life to really enjoy it however it is also important to have a vision or picture of what we want.

  The more you can be specific about what you want as your current goal which is of course in the future the easier it is to get closer to it every day. The World does not care either what you want. It doesn't matter what your intentions are. How committed you think you are. What you want or what you don't want. It is your goal and you own it. Everyday you take your hard core actions toward your goal. Everyday you can feel it. Everyday you work on it and visualize it in your minds eye. Because now is the time. You have made your move. Now the World has to come to you. You don't have to beg, grovel and slide through life. Nobody gives a f*ck anyways because they are so caught up and micro focused on themselves with their head thinking about their problems and how unfair everything is.

  Its about you. Its about your goal. You own it!! 

  Then it comes down to how bad you want it. So bad! Real Bad! You want it so bad

  that you are willling to do whatever it takes to achieve it. Because its your turn and you deserve it.         

 Take the time to get under yourself. Around yourself.Make time with yourself. Become reacquainted with yourself again! Remember, you are worth it! 

 I mean when we get up every morning, all we have is today right? There is no promise of the future so we have to take actions everyday so that life can be even more fun and rewarding in the future. And we need something to look forward to right?

 Why not make it your day to paint a new mosaic of your future. To leave behind all the crap that likes to cling on. Just move ahead confidently, take some actions everyday, be grateful for who you are and enjoy the process new things show up in your life, richer conversations, people you never thought you would meet. It is just incredible what can unfold in your life withing 3 months from now, a year from now, 5 years from now, as you do a few things each day that are important to you.

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