Dreambuilder or Crazymaker

How to keep your dream, your visions and outcomes close to you and ignore the Crazymaker's…How many times have you seen a friend or business associate all excited about a new vision they have, a new dream and are just over the moon about their new destination. 

They tell you all about it. What their plan is. The actions they are going to take. Then come Monday morning you see them again and they are totally deflated. Squeezed right out. First You ask them how their plan is going and they say 'what?' Oh you mean that. No, I'm not doing that.’ I talked to my Uncle on the weekend and he said it wasn't a good idea.

So, all of a sudden your uncle is the expert even though he knows nothing about what you were about to do.. He is a sideliner. Watched it all his life. He is a strong influential force in your life but he is just a dream stealer. He's a Crazymaker.

He will pull out great ideas right out of your head and feed you a whole bunch of trash...

We have Crazymakers in our everyday work life. Our personal life. In all aspects. Some people go through their whole life and just get bounced around listening to Crazymakers. They never stand a chance because they either never figure it out or they just never had someone around them that always looked out for their best interests. 

Life happens and it goes on and we all have different experiences that just beat up and tarnish our character and confidence. 

To shift it over, we still have to trust. No matter what. Those four walls we put up to protect and armor ourselves are the same four ways we must let down to feel and let life touch us once again.

And it gets easier too. You get stronger, wiser, faster and better each time life takes a shot at you. Your goals and dreams become clearer and you feel closer to them the more time you spend working on them. They become more joyous, fun and rewarding. Eventually it feels so so worth it.

And it's a balance too. You can't just pretend all the crazymaker stuff is not there. You know it's there, you just let it bounce off you and continue to create your life the way you want it. Eventually less and less of it is in your life and everything works more and more in your favor.

So even when you hit a rough patch, you continue on working and creating your masterpiece life.

Personally, I think back to times in my life where I hit a rough patch and just froze like a deer in the headlights protecting my goal when really I should have doubled down. Instead of listening to someone's crazymaker bullshit I should have forcefully pushed through and knocked it out. The imaginary thumb of what I thought the world wanted me to do or what I thought my job wanted was a false illusion. 

Now I think of all the quieter times where I just felt disconnected but went and created and did it anyways. In spite of any circumstances, I just created. Remember, life doesn't happen to you, it happens for you.

So if you really want to be the Top Bitch or Top Producer or Top Gun

If you want the best of the best of everything.

The hottest and strongest business.

The best of first rate travel.

The most beautiful writing pens.

5 Star Luxury resort Vacations.

The best friends you could ever have.

The most beautiful residence that is set up for your lifestyle.

Then this is the time you have to look in the mirror and declare yourself the Top Gun.

You have to delve deep deep into yourself and bring out your best beliefs that support you and absolutely love them.

Forget all the Crazymakers and the Naysayers. Fuck them. You have to cultivate your own being and fully own it.

Ignore all the chatter. Even the long winded employee at work that just goes on and on and on about everything. Don't subscribe to that. Matter of fact, don't even talk about it because what we talk about, we bring about.

With every fiber of your being you have to reach deep into your soul and pull out and create the best of you. 

And there will be learning experiences.

There will be lots of efforts, lots of trials and lots of failures. Lots of resilience and lots of ups and downs and lots of bumps and bruises. 

And here's the thing...No one gives a fuck!

And either do you, because you are Top Shelf and just know you're stuff.

You just pick up, dust yourself off and go at it again. One more time.

You read things that are important to you. You create your own script that you can review daily about who you are being. Every morning you have time reserved for yourself to study, practice, reflect and keep creating the best version of yourself over and over.

When you walk into the world one or two hours later, you are polished and ready to knock it out. Ready to make a difference on what you are best at. Ready to contribute the best version of yourself to friends, family and business associates. Because you know that just one action or comment can make all the difference for someone who is trying their best not to fall apart. This keeps your compassion and kindness in your heart at all times.

Today is the best day of your life and it's starting again!